Testimonials
what my clients are saying
Mentally I call on you for advice.
“Sumati, I need you to know how important you are in my life. You have helped me get through a turning point that has led me to a very happy place. Mentally I call on you for advice and make better choices. It's also very satisfying to see a friend I referred to you flourishing because of your coaching.”
I don't think my wife and I would still be together without your help.
“I can't tell you how grateful I am for you Sumati. I don't think my wife and I would still be together without your help. And not only are we still together and thriving, but we are also doing quite well with having an open marriage. Sure we still have bumps, but we always go back to the tools you taught us and are able to get back to a good place pretty quickly. “
The safest and most effective counselor I have ever worked with.
“Sumati has a certain mixture of empathy and tough love, of wisdom and vulnerability that makes her the safest and most effective counselor I have ever worked with. With her support and guidance, I have been able to work through my tidal waves of jealousy. Today I can say I love myself more than I ever have and I can love others fully and freely. Thank you Sumati Sparks.“
We are having so much fun!
“My husband and I were experimenting with online sexy play to keep from being bored during the pandemic. I fell hard for a guy I met online. Even though we had never met in person, my husband became traumatized. Sumati helped him work through his trauma enough so that I am about to travel to meet my virtual boyfriend in person after a year of only seeing him on a screen! Oh and my hubby has a new girlfriend too. We are having so much fun! Thank you so much Sumati Sparks!“
Sumati, you’re a miracle worker!!
“We came to Sumati because I fell in love with a man I worked with. My husband was understandably distraught. After working with Sumati for only a few months, my husband has learned how to handle his jealousy and even goes for drinks with my boyfriend sometimes! I can’t believe it! Sumati, you’re a miracle worker!!“
We talk to Sumati when we are in a rough spot and she always sets us back on course.
“My wife and I were in the Lifestyle community. She wanted to start seeing someone without me. This broke all the rules we talked about when we started this. We found Sumati and she helped us transition to a more polyamorous lifestyle. I can’t say it’s been easy. But I’ve learned so much about myself and how my wife isn’t to blame for my feelings and triggers. Even after we finished our package, we still talk to Sumati when we are in a rough spot and she always sets us back on course.“
Sumati helped me break out of my monogamy programming and allow myself to fully enjoy the experience.
“My husband and I fooled around a few times with a couple who were our friends. I eventually had strong feelings for the man in the couple. My husband and his wife were OK with us seeing each other but I couldn’t keep from feeling guilty about it. Sumati helped me break out of my monogamy programming and allow myself to fully enjoy the experience. It was a lot harder than I thought. I had always been a “good girl.” I’m not a good girl any more and both my husband and my lover are very happy about it!”
We have had a breakthrough in our relationship!
“We became honest about how we had gotten sucked into the conventional mores of monogamy and finally acknowledged who we are and what we wanted. We still love each other and are supporting each other with having separate experiences. Sumati’s kind but frank style, based on her own wealth of knowledge about being true to one’s sexuality, was the instrumental turning point to my new freedom! I want to profoundly thank you Sumati.”